How To Make A Guy Fall In Love With You [Tested & Proven Tips]
Well, let’s face it, we know that everyone wants to fall in love at some point, and more importantly, they want someone that they dear most to fall in love with them.
When two people are in a serious relationship, you know that they share certain special level of connection and compatibility that extends beyond the great moment of just being together.
Besides getting along as two human being in love, they need to understand each other beyond the understanding of best or close friends, in order to share each other’s joy and pain and be on the same state mentally and emotionally.
To make a guy falling for you, here are some tips that have helped many and so will you:
Highlight what he likes about you
Have the guy that you want to fall in love with you hinted in the past about what he likes in or about you? that can be certain physical or emotional characteristics that you possess, if yes, then learn to highlight those features. But just don’t go overboard.
Remember, too much showing off will not do you good, if you know what I mean. How you looked or felt didn’t matter, just put a bit of twist on what he likes about you could start the spark of starting to fall for you. Present yourself in a way that will make him notice.
Change the way you talk
When that guy treats you just like one of his friends, he will tend to talk about everything under the sun, from common interests or what each other’s interests are! If you want that guy to relate to you on a more intimate level, you could try flirting verbally and stare at him right in the eyes and smile for few seconds and turn away. See, what will happen after that!!
Create a total new ambience
Instead of going with him to a usual hangout, you could bring him to a more private venue and romantic setting. And should he ever asked you why the change of plan, just say that you feel peace and safe just being with him at this very moment.. Again, see what will happen!
Routine calling for 30 days
If you haven’t done this before, start today. Call him everyday on a specific time for 30 days, for example, call him every night with the exact same time say 10.30pm before you off to bed, make the conversation short — like, just say “I so happen to think about you and just want to say “Good Night”. Do this for 30 days and stop doing that for few days. Believe me, he will start to worry about you. If he is not, then he is not even a human.
Change your attitude
If this guy is already your friend, he will most probably know how you behave around someone you have more than companionable feelings for and the next time you meet him, start behaving with him the way you would around someone you like. This is how you send a signal to him.
Make him jealous
Men do not like to admit it that jealousy makes them feel like they need to fight for their women. To make a guy jealous and eventually make him fall in love with you, there are few tips that you can do to make that happen. Here are some tips to make him jealous:
- Chip-in in your conversation by telling him — “I run into my guy friend that I have not seen for..(over how many years) and he asked me for (example: my number) so that he can call me for a drink and he told me that…. (example: he has been looking for me or I’m pretty or want to date me or “anything that you can think of)..
- Upload a photo with another guy on your social media (like Facebook)
- Ask for a recommendation to buy a perfect gift for a guy
Once he gets jealous, he feels that he is now running at a risk of losing you and he doesn’t want that to happen, this is the point that he will like you even more because he will make the effort to win you over. Do it modestly and don’t make him too jealous.
Use body language
Well, this one could be the most powerful tools to hint to people how you feel. The body language that the two of you share is very different. Now, all you have to do is change the way you touch or hold him and if he has half a brain, he will get the hint.
Make eye contact
Whenever you are in a conversation with him, keep your entire focus by making eye contact with him. Make him feel that you are not bored listening to what he has to say. When your focus only on him, don’t forget to smile and gaze his entire face. Glance away for bried periods then start the eye contact again.
Don’t ever tell him that you love him
Don’t make this mistake like many women do. The moment they have a crush with a guy, they immediately either show that they love him or say it out. It’s never a good idea to tell the guy that you want him to fall in love with you that you love him, whether it’s after a day or 30 days.
Keep it to yourself, let him win you over at the beginning of the relationship. Another point to note is that, don’t make it too obvious that you are in love with him, if you do then there is nothing else a guy can do and the excitement of wanting him to fall in love with you will just gone.
Become the best version of you
Do you really need to go on diet and look sexy & irresistible to make him fall in love with you? Of course not, but you should be the best version of you. For example, do you know what colour he likes? Put on those nice outfit with the colour that he likes every time you meet up with him. Always be the best version of you when you are around your special man.
Make him see that both of you have the same chemistry
Having the same chemistry in any relationship is important. Find something both of you love to do and bring it into your conversation to get his attention. If you know he loves travelling, certain music or other interest and you do too, get him to know that these are something the two of you have in common.
Do the things that benefited him the most and not you
One of the ways on how people will always remember you is the good things that you have done to them. Same goes to any relationships and it always turn out good when you help others knowing that you are not going to get anything in return.
When you do something that benefited him the most, he will notice it instantly and if whatsoever reason that he comes to you and ask why, your response should be “you deserve the best”.
Laugh when he is making jokes (even if it’s not funny)
In case if you haven’t noticed, men are looking for a women that they can make them laugh or smile. When he makes his jokes and it’s not that funny, just laugh at it. By doing so, you are sending a signal to him that he is funny and that is what most man is looking for, and your laughter will make him feel good and he will try to find other jokes just to want to make you laugh.
And a piece of advice, when you laugh, you may want to give a soft touch on his chest or shoulder or face. You know that almost every guy you meet will try to make you smile or laugh. So why not seize this opportunity and laugh at his jokes.
Do not try to change him
One of the biggest mistakes in a relationship is to change someone. If the guy that you are interested likes to spend thousands of dollars for any new release of the smart phone that he is in-tuned to which doesn’t pleases you, don’t try to change him or talk him out of it.
When someone is deeply passionate about something, just let it be. But if the things that passionate him the most drives you nuts, you might want to consider whether you want to continue hanging out with him.
Make him feel that you are not just another women
Don’t let him think that you are just a like another women who doesn’t care less about anything except make-up, having the perfect body, hair style and shoes. Show him that you have more than meets the eye and you have more to look forward to in life. You don’t have to fake it, but constantly think about something that makes you different from other women out there and use that to your advantage whenever you are with him.
Show him gratitude in return
By now you should know that a man has two primary gifts that he can offer to a woman i.e his ability to protect and to provide.
When the guy that you want to fall in love with you is willing to risk it all to protect what is yours and sacrifices his time, energy and talent in order to provide for you, all he really wants is just a little gratitude in return and that is something you can give. When you show a little bit of appreciation to a men, you indirectly give him a meaning to be with you and he knows that you are not taking him for granted.
Become an interesting person
It is human nature to be attracted to people who are interesting, we do not need science to tell us that. The way to capture a guy’s attention is to be interesting. Be yourself and live life to the fullest. Don’t obsess yourself over relationships on a guy to gain your sense of worth.
Become an interesting person — how you like to spend your time with? What do you care the most? What do you find interesting in life? How will you make a better today and tomorrow?
Let him know that you’re thinking about him
Do you have this moment where someone gives you a compliment (like, I keep on thinking about you), you then blush from your head to your toe? Well the same concept applies. Let him know that you keep on thinking about him and believe me, that compliment will stuck in his head. Try sending him few text messages to make his day.
OMG, I can’t get anything done today. Just keep on hearing your laughter…
Having my lunch now, but can’t get over myself thinking what are you having!
Just wanna say hi, since your face just pop-up out of the blue!
Never ever being too needy
Yes, you are crazy for him but you need to stop calling too much, wanting all of his time and attention only for you, getting jealous every time he hangs out with someone else, panicking if you did not receive a reply or a call from him. If you are in this situation, you got to change your mindset. Learn how to let go and don’t think too much of negativity but rather imagine that he is spending his time doing what he likes to do.
Don’t be too possessive
One of the greatest mistakes that women do is being too possessive of a guy even before he admits his love to them. Being too possessive will not only harm your relationship with him but also, he will try to find excuses to avoid being with you.
Being possessive is toxic that can lead a woman trying to stop or protect his guy from other women which she thinks can disturb/destroy her relationship with him so that she remains the only women in his life. Do not appear as if you are controlling him, allow him to decide on what is best for him. If he is really for you then he will definitely fall for you.
Conclusion
It’s not rocket science to get a guy to fall in love with you. You need to be consistent and work on it if your goal is to be with him for the rest of your life. You need to have self-confidence, honesty, genuineness and honesty in order for this serious relationship to work.
If you know just what to do, it will eventually happen. Hold on to the tips and apply it to build the relationship that you’ve always dreamt of and you will be surprised that by applying these tips, you will uncover his secret obsession along the way.
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